The First Step: Clarity
When it comes to creating the life you desire, the first and most important step is getting crystal clear on what you want. This is where you set the foundation for everything that follows. Think of it like placing an order in a universal catalogue—you can’t get what you want if you don’t know exactly what that is.
But here’s the key: it’s not about what you think you can get, what others think you should want, or what feels “realistic.” This is your moment to dream freely.
Allow Yourself to Dream
Take out a journal and make a list of everything you desire. Don’t hold back. Think of it this way: the universe doesn’t distinguish between a mansion and a hut—it only responds to your energy and focus. If you truly want the mansion, go ahead and put it on your list! Just because a hut was all you could afford in the past doesn’t mean that’s all that’s possible for your future.
Let your imagination guide you. What does your ideal life look like? How do you feel when you think about having it?
Be Specific
When making your list, include the obvious details, but also think about the things that might not come to mind right away. Let me share a story:
I once worked with a client who wanted to manifest her dream partner. She did! He was interesting, thoughtful, and everything she’d envisioned—except for one thing. He “friend-zoned” her. She hadn’t thought to include that he should also be romantically and emotionally available to her!
This is why it’s so important to get specific. Your subconscious mind—the part of you that does the work of manifesting—doesn’t fill in the blanks the way your conscious mind does. It takes your list at face value. It is very literal.
If you’re manifesting a dream home, make sure to include things like:
It’s affordable for you to live in.
It’s in a location that supports your needs.
It brings you joy, comfort, and a sense of ease.
If you’re manifesting a relationship, include qualities like:
They are emotionally and physically available to you.
They love, value, and prioritize you.
They meet your relationship needs.
The Role of the Subconscious Mind
Why am I focusing so much on this list and the subconscious? Because the subconscious is where the magic of manifestation happens.
The Subconscious Does What It’s Programmed to Do- When you focus on the outcomes you desire, you’re programming your subconscious with clear instructions. This helps it guide you toward the steps, opportunities, and mindset needed to align with those desires.
The Subconscious is Connected to Infinite Possibility- Your subconscious is the part of you that’s tapped into the universe, source energy, or the zero-point field. This is the place of infinite potential, where anything you can imagine already exists. It’s like a giant catalogue of experiences, and you can place your order for whatever you want.
But how does the subconscious do this? Through thoughts and emotions. This is why being specific and clear about what you want—and feeling it as if it’s already yours—is so important.
My List for Manifesting My Perfect Home
I’ve already done this step in my own journey. I’ve made my list, and I’ve made sure it’s a good one. I’m not skimping, because I know what I want and I’m not afraid to ask for it.
This is a partial list of what my ideal home looks like:
It has space for my husband and me to work comfortably from home.
It’s located in a quiet area with beautiful places to walk nearby.
It has a beautiful and functional kitchen with lots of storage.
It has a garden
It’s a safe and inviting space for our cats, with outdoor access they can enjoy safely.
It feels comfortable, luxurious, and just right.
It’s affordable for us, and I feel at ease maintaining it.
It gives me a sense of pride and joy to decorate and care for it.
Addressing Skepticism
Even though I’m clear on what I want, my conscious mind sometimes wants to jump in with doubt:
“Do you really think you can find all of that?”
“It’s probably too expensive.”
When those thoughts come up, I acknowledge them, but I don’t let them derail me. I remind myself: this isn’t about what seems logical or realistic in the moment—it’s about aligning with the energy of what I want.
We’ll talk more in future posts about how to handle negative thoughts and skepticism, but for now, focus on your list. Write it, dream it, and make sure it truly reflects what you want.
Next Step
What’s on your list? Take time today to sit quietly, connect with your desires, and write down everything you truly want. Be bold, be specific, and let your imagination run free.
Remember: the first step to creating the life you want is to decide what you want. Let the universe know—and trust that it’s already aligning things to make it happen.
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