The Power of Alignment
Years ago, I had a fantastic business coach who was also a psychic. At the time, I was struggling with whether to keep a particular aspect of my business alive or let it go. I spent several sessions going back and forth, overthinking and weighing the pros and cons. Finally, she stopped me and asked one simple question:
“What do you want to experience in your life?”
Without hesitation, I said, “Luxury.”
Her advice changed everything. She told me to spend as much time as possible in the feeling of luxury. She explained that anything aligned with that vibration would naturally move toward me, while anything that wasn’t a match would fall away. Instead of agonizing over my decision, she said to focus solely on being in the energy of luxury and allow clarity to emerge.
If that aspect of my business was aligned with luxury, it would remain.
When Things Fall Away
She gave me one warning, though: as you shift your vibration to align with what you want, things that aren’t a match will begin to fall away.
This is where many people panic. It can feel like your life is falling apart, like things are going wrong instead of right. But here’s the truth: when things leave, it’s because they no longer align with where you’re going or the vibration you’re stepping into. If that aspect of my business was not aligned with my desire for more luxury in my life, it will fall away organically. And my job? Let it go! Don't scaramble after it. Don't desperately try to resurrect it. Take it as a sign that things are working and I am alinging with luxury and let it fall away.
If you experience this, remind yourself: It’s working. Let those things go with gratitude and trust that they’re making space for something better.
Aligning with the Feeling of What You Want
Now let’s talk about how to align with the energy of your desires. The process is simple but powerful.
Start by asking yourself:
What would it feel like to already have what you want?
What emotions would that bring into your life?
Is it peace? Joy? Comfort? Excitement? Pride?
Get specific. For example, when I think about my dream home, the feeling I want to experience is one of comfort, luxury, and a sense of pride. It’s a space that feels right on every level.
Once you know the feeling, the goal is to spend as much time as possible in that energy. This can be through your imagination, your actions, or even small changes in your current environment.
Practical Steps to Align with Any Desire
Here are ways to align with the energy of your desires, with examples for different goals:
1. Visualize Daily
Spend a few moments every morning visualizing yourself already living your desired life.
If you’re manifesting love: Imagine waking up next to your ideal partner, sharing breakfast, or going on a fun date.
If you’re manifesting health: Picture yourself full of energy, enjoying activities you love, or feeling strong and vibrant.
If you’re manifesting financial abundance: See yourself checking your bank account and feeling ease and excitement as you see a healthy balance.
For me, I lie in bed and imagine my husband and I waking up in our dream home. I picture the sunlight streaming through the windows, the cozy bed, and the peaceful energy of the space.
2. Live It in Your Mind Throughout the Day
Carry the feeling with you during everyday tasks.
While cooking, imagine you’re preparing a meal in your dream kitchen.
While exercising, visualize your body becoming stronger and healthier.
While working, see yourself thriving in a career that fulfills and excites you.
The subconscious mind doesn’t know the difference between what’s real and what’s vividly imagined. By imagining yourself already living your dream, you send out the vibration of having it now.
3. Infuse Your Current Life with That Feeling
Bring elements of your desired feeling into your present environment.
For a dream home: Clean and organize your current space, decorate it in a way that feels luxurious, and treat it with care as if it’s your ideal home.
For love: Practice self-love and create a life you enjoy on your own. Surround yourself with beauty and connection.
For financial abundance: Track your current income with gratitude and treat yourself to small indulgences that feel abundant.
I do this by taking pride in my current home. I keep it clean and organized, and as I tidy up, I imagine I’m caring for my dream home. It keeps me aligned with the energy of pride and joy I’ll feel in that space.
4. Spend Time in the Energy of Your Desire in the World
Immerse yourself in experiences that match your desired vibration.
Visit neighborhoods or open houses that reflect your dream home.
Spend time in places that make you feel loved, inspired, or abundant.
Surround yourself with people or environments that embody what you want.
By physically stepping into the energy you want to attract, you reinforce that vibration in your life.
Trust the Process
Manifestation works through alignment. The more time you spend in the energy of already having what you desire, the more you attract it into your life. And if something starts to fall away, take it as a sign that you’re growing into a higher vibration. Trust the process—it’s clearing the path for something better.
Your Turn
Now it’s your turn to align with the energy of what you want. Here’s how to get started:
Identify what you want and how it feels to have it.
Spend time visualizing yourself already experiencing it.
Infuse your current environment with that energy.
Seek out real-life experiences that match your desired vibration.
What are you working on manifesting? How can you align with its energy today? Share your thoughts—I’d love to hear about your journey!
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